Classes Finished

Whew!!! We took our last class on Saturday. This class was focused on medications, first aid and getting our certification for CPR. All in all I would have to say these classes were great. I believe all parents could benefit from these classes whether they were adopting or not. Nelson and I walked way better parents than we were two weeks ago. Each class we took confirmed more and more in our hearts that God is calling us to adopt. We now are in the middle of filling out lots and lots of paperwork. Because these are children who are in care of the state they have very strict rules set up for them. Over the next weeks we will be finishing up the paperwork and preparing a room for our future child. Needless to say it is very busy around the Carter house. The boys will move into their own rooms so they are excited about this. Landon is more excited because he has been asking us to have his own room for quite some time. This process can take a while so please be praying for us as we wait. The adoption process is a lot of waiting. We were given a rough time line of 6-9 months or sooner to possibly be placed with a child. Her room and her family will be ready and waiting for God to bring that special little girl into our lives. When you pray for us please pray for her as well as her family. We have to remember these families are hurting and lost. We don't know what their lives have been like or what kind of childhood they might of had. This of course does not excuse abuse or neglect but we are called to love them just the same. Sandy Sue

Our Classes

Friends and Family,

Tomorrow we will be on class five out of six. At first you think why should I have to take these classes but you soon understand. Traditional parenting techniques don't usually work with these children. For instance time out is not recommended for them. If they have spent their lives being rejected or neglected time out is another way of making them feel rejected. Also they may like being put in time out because they don't have to worry about trying to bond with you and then you just disappoint them anyway. Nelson and I have learned so much and we think all parent should take these classes. We typically parent the behavior instead of the relationship. My heart just aches for these children. Last night Lincoln slept with me because he was scared to sleep alone. He asked to be right up against me and asked for me to sleep with my arm around him. I treasure this time. He looked up at me and said, "mommy I will always need you because you keep me safe." At that moment I was filled with love for him and all those children out there who don't have someone making them feel safe and secure. I could just imagine our potential daughter having to face all these fears on her own. I pray God will bring her to us soon. We know God is in control and wether He brings a child for us to adopt for a lifetime or to love for a season we will be doing His work.

Sandy Sue

Welcome to Our Adoption Journey

Hello Friends & Family,

If you don't already know our family has been joyfully called to explore the ministry of adoption. In countless ways this decision has been placed upon our hearts. This need has been put into perspective as we have learned more about the thousands of children in need of a loving, safe home. As Christians, we have also been convicted by the many comments and commands Jesus gave about loving children, orphans, little ones and the least of these. We have been blessed for a purpose…and we believe that purpose includes sharing our blessings with a child that may otherwise never know a loving environment.

We will be adopting through Covenant Kids, a placement agency for TDFPS (Texas Department of Family & Protective Services). We have already begun our adoption license classes, and have completed about half of the course training. After the completion of our classes we will have a home study and will be in the process of finalizing the mountains of paperwork required by the state. The timeline after that is anybody’s guess… when the need arises.

Our prayer is for God to give us clarity and strength as we go through this process. We will be making decisions that will affect our immediate family, our extended family, our hearts, and the life of a hurting child. May these decisions be prayerful and selfless.

We ask that you lift our family in prayer during this time, as well as the child who may at this moment be dreaming of a family who will love them. We will also be in prayer for the family whose child we may be adopting. Even though their mistakes are the reason a child will require a new family, they need Christ’s love no less they we do and no doubt they are hurting as well. The real prayer would be that children are so well loved there would be none available for adoption.

We wanted to create this blog so you can take this journey with us. We are not sure what the Lord has planned for us, but we trust Him fully.

In His Name,
Nelson & Sandy Sue