Friends and Family,
Tomorrow we will be on class five out of six. At first you think why should I have to take these classes but you soon understand. Traditional parenting techniques don't usually work with these children. For instance time out is not recommended for them. If they have spent their lives being rejected or neglected time out is another way of making them feel rejected. Also they may like being put in time out because they don't have to worry about trying to bond with you and then you just disappoint them anyway. Nelson and I have learned so much and we think all parent should take these classes. We typically parent the behavior instead of the relationship. My heart just aches for these children. Last night Lincoln slept with me because he was scared to sleep alone. He asked to be right up against me and asked for me to sleep with my arm around him. I treasure this time. He looked up at me and said, "mommy I will always need you because you keep me safe." At that moment I was filled with love for him and all those children out there who don't have someone making them feel safe and secure. I could just imagine our potential daughter having to face all these fears on her own. I pray God will bring her to us soon. We know God is in control and wether He brings a child for us to adopt for a lifetime or to love for a season we will be doing His work.
Sandy Sue
3 comments:
You want to adopt them all and keep them safe. And you don't understand why their biological parents don't keep them safe and loved.
Patti Ray
wow!! I'm so excited for you guys as you have begun this "life changing" journey. What amazing things the Lord has in store......! Can't wait to see them play out (in His timing). Will continue to pray for you all...and also for your soon to be DAUGHTER (wherever she may be).
Love y'all.......Lori
I will be keeping up with the blog and praying for you and your family along this journey.
Bridget Raymond
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